It was late March back a few years ago. Michael, the three
kids, and I had just gotten back from the Spring break trip to the island. My day had been going well, even though it was
overcast and a bit cooler than my fresh-from-the-Caribbean body was longing for.
I was upbeat and happy, with joy in my heart from ten days spent loving on
Saba.
I wheeled up to Woodbury Grammar School for some sort of “mom
duty”. As I parked the car on the front
curb of the building, I noticed the school principal, Mrs. Bonnie Patterson,
and the assistant, Mr. Jeff Todd, parking as well and getting out of a car. As my feet hit the pavement, I met the two school
administrators with a smile and a happy, “Hey guys, how are y’all?”
I did not expect the response, but it has forever changed
me. Mrs. Bonnie replied…
“You want a mission field, I have you a mission field. We
just came from filling the fridge and pantry shelves of a house where some of
our students live. It was practically empty, Aletha, empty! We have to do
something.”
For me, that is how WeCareCannon began. And that's also when Bonnie Patterson became one of my favorite people.
When a few men and
women from our community began to roll around the idea of our community being
motivated and pulled together to help each other out, I HAD to be involved. Folks
started talking about school supplies and backpacks. Then school appropriate
shoes. And if you are giving new shoes, why wouldn’t you give socks too? I will
never forget attending a county principal’s meeting and being told, “Underwear!
They need underwear too!” Little by
little, others began to throw in ideas. Before long medical exams, dental checkups,
haircuts, and hygiene products were on the lists of musts.
Once one knows, how can you not pitch in and help in some way?
But this is what is on my heart…
It isn’t about a free handout. It isn’t about doing something because you
think this is what someone else needs so that you can pillow your head at night
and feel good. It isn’t about donating a chunk of change and then turning a deaf ear
to the real needs of the families and children of our community.
It’s about meeting a child and asking their name. It’s about
having a conversation about their grandfather who is about to have surgery and
praying over his healing.
It’s about giving a young lady a fresh haircut. When she
looks in the mirror, she doesn’t think about it being free, but she feels
confident and she remembers the stylist that was kind.
It’s about a child being able to run and play like the other
kids in class, with shoes that are appropriate on a gym floor and fit perfectly.
It’s about the grandmother who is raising her four
grandkids. Her worry is lifted by the kind gestures, needed supplies, and
encouraging acceptance.
It’s about a volunteer freezing in a gym while handing out
supplies, realizing she’d rather be uncomfortable for a few hours so a child
can be comfortable for an entire school year in the appropriate size new
underwear.
It’s about a kid seeing a lady in Piggly Wiggly. The two see
each other and immediately hug and begin to talk about how the school year has
gone.
It’s about the man that wrote a pretty hefty check to
financially support WeCareCannon. He
shows up the day of the event to be a tour guide. The same hand that wrote the check,
holds the hand of a new kindergarten student, encouraging them that they are
going to love their new school and do absolutely wonderful!
It’s not only about a financial need. It’s about an
emotional need. It’s about an intellectual need. It’s about the need of stress
relief and the absence of worry.
WeCareCannon is really about a feeling that I wish could
take over not only our little community, but our country and our world. If we help each other out…and we ALL need
help in some way at some time…then we don’t get bogged down with what the
government should or shouldn’t do or about somebody taking too many handouts
and the such.
It’s about the need of unity and understanding and love.
Really it all boils down to this…“Treat others as you want
to be treated.”
It’s as easy as a backpack. It’s as little as a cap eraser.
It’s as simple as a smile or kind word.
It’s as big as a child’s life changed forever.
Crying!!!! This was the first year I got to hear, "hey looks it's Noah's mom!" And that gave WeCareCannon a whole new feel for me. I know these children. I love them deeper because I know them.
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